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sup guys
Im a very "pure" christian and I guess I have a few questions on my mind..
I've been thinking a lot about dating.. but im not sure where to start.
My brothers have been telling me christian dating is the way to go.. so I've done a little research on <a href=http://www.breakingthelight.com/?christiandating=349>how to get a christian girl to give up virginity</a>
The below is a little paragraph I found on <a href=http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=breakingthelight.com&btnG=Search>google</a>
<b>"</b>A person from your own faith gives you strength to do things. This person acts as your support when you feel burdened under the pressure of happenings around you. On the other hand, dating a non-Christian will automatically increase the chances of your wandering away from religion and neglecting the basic principles of Christian dating.9. Always let a friend or someone you know exactly where you're going and who you'll be meeting with including any email addresses or phone numbers you have for the date. If possible arrange a time to call a friend and check in. Tell your date you're meeting friends later and do so if possible. If you don't call or appear than friends can call you on your cell phone or call the police or whatever you've decide in advance is appropriate. Have 911 programmed into your cell phone.2. Place God Before Earthly Passions:The Ideal Of Courtship: Recently, someone told me her pastor had said she was ready to begin courting and that she should pray for God to reveal to her who she was to marry. She was very excited that he (the pastor) had finally given his permission. She then explained that they did not date, but preferred the Biblical ideal of courtship. For those of you who are wondering, no pastor can speak for God with respect to someone else's timing or method of selecting the mate God has chosen for them. But, taking the cult stuff out, what about courtship? Courtship is still practiced in some cultures, but the more developed world has opted for dating as the preferred method of choosing a spouse. Here's the courtship concept: With permission of the parents, a young man and woman enter into an exclusive relationship where they see each other (usually under supervision) for a specified period of time to investigate the possibility of marriage. Under the courtship concept, no one "dates" anyone without the agreed-upon intent of marriage. This custom has worked fairly well in underdeveloped countries where education is limited and culture, religion and ethnicity aren't mixed. Still, the idea that courtship is the Biblical ideal is a bit of a stretch.*Hey, Christians! If you want to take the religious mumbo-jumbo out of Christianity, just get your answers through the Bible. Once you're reading it for yourself, no one can tell you it says something that it doesn't say. As for you cult leaders who think you're leading a Christian church by lording it over the private lives of Christians, I pray the Holy Spirit open their eyes and yours.<b>"</b>
What do you fellos think?
Any advice?
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